Showing posts with label male female differences. Show all posts
Showing posts with label male female differences. Show all posts

Sunday, February 22, 2015

Gone Girl as psychopath or sociopath?

After finishing the novel…
Jill: It was a disquieting book. That Amy had this mask of sanity in her first diary and then she went psychopathic in her second diary.

Nigel: She turned into a sociopath.

Jill: Well, her personality flaws seemed to be innate, like a psychosis.

Nigel: But at the end, what she did to Desi, that was sociopathic. Anyway, it was an unsatisfying ending.

Jill: Some see it as symmetrical. They deserved each other.

Nigel: Symmetrical? Nick wasn’t in Amy’s league for evil.
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Voice-over

 “Psychopath” and “sociopath” are sometimes used interchangeably. Robert Hare, who devised a Psychopathy Checklist, suggested a distinction. Psychopathy might be more relevant for referring to disorders caused by biological or genetic factors, but sociopathy might be a result of environment and social factors. Was it Amy's genes or upbringing that made her turn out like that?
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Saturday, October 18, 2008

Natural soap

Sandra washes with a non-brand, roughly-cut, mottled soap bar.

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Rebecca: Funny looking soap.


Sandra: Home-made. My friend makes it. Natural products.


Rebecca: I tried a natural soap once, it melted in the bath.


Sandra: It melts, you have to dry it every time you use it, not easy to use, but allergies don’t bother me now.


Rebecca: Ordinary soaps have chemicals?


Sandra: So they say. But they lather easily, whereas with this home-made soap, suds take work.

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Voice-over

It's not a soap commercial.


It's a nice example of women’s talk. The opening challenge swiftly turns into an exchange of information. Shared experience (“I tried it once…”) leads to a discussion of strengths and weaknesses (“…melts…but no allergies…) and conciliatory flavorings ("So they say...").


It’s not to say men don’t follow this pattern too… but…you might expect a bit more jousting and posturing at the beginning.

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