Showing posts with label Leo. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Leo. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Are you sure?

Marilyn takes her cat to the vet. For the last time.

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Marilyn: He won't take his medicine, he hasn't eaten or drunk anything for five days, when you put food in his mouth it just falls out, now he can't walk.

Vet: We can give him food intravenously, and continue the prednisone and interferon and antibiotics and anti-inflammatories on a drip also.

Marilyn: A kind of intensive care?

Vet: An ICU, yes.

Marilyn: But he won't recover?

Vet: No, we can't remove the virus. We can just try to improve his condition for a little longer. Then his decline will continue.

Marilyn: Or you could put him to sleep with an injection.

Vet: This is possible. Are you sure you want to do this?

Marilyn: I figure there's no point in prolonging his discomfort by putting him in ICU together with a dozen other sick animals, there's no hope of recovery, putting up with all the side effects of the drugs, taking him home where he might die alone while I'm out. Here I can be with him when he does go.

Vet: Are you sure you won't regret it?

Marilyn: I have the feeling I'll regret it if we don't.


Vet: We'll get things set up.

(20 minutes later, the vet removes the stethoscope from Leo's chest.)

Vet: That's it. He's... asleep.

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Voiceover

Leo finally passed away. 19 May 2008. 2 cat years. Despite the decisiveness shown, a decision like this is never easy. Words help screen the bewilderment and pain of losing a pet. But when talk stops the grief gushes up.

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Thursday, May 8, 2008

After diagnosis

Barry visits Leo who had a somewhat traumatic visit to the vet two days ago.

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Barry: You have a lucky face, Leo. I’m not just saying that like some Indian fortune teller. I mean it. You made a lot of people happy, you made a lot of people laugh. You were a YouTube star.

Leo yawns.

Tired? Well, no doubt it’s the medicine. Let’s just hope… You feel a bit more comfortable after the prednisone? Did you understand what the vet said?

Leo looks up.

We’ll do our best. Medicine. Food, whatever you like to eat. And let’s just hope. You never know. Do our best to put ourselves at the tail of the bell curve. That could mean several months.

Leo settles closer.

That’s it. Nice to just sit close.

Ten minutes of silence pass.

Will say this for you. You are a good listener.

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Voiceover

How to talk to a dying cat? What to say? Maybe it’s not so different to talking to dying human being. H-E-L-P.

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